The word 'mourn' is misrepresented. It does not represent feelings of sorrow or loss, but the amount of love you have left to give and the sudden change in the way in which you show it. This works both ways, too. When the flowers are looking particularly lovely, they're with you, when the family are round for a cup of tea, they're joining you, when you're sat there-just working or reading, they're right there with you. Loving you, just as much as they did before. Xx